Moving to a (what I like to call) “Disneyland” development where all the houses are pretty much the same apart from the odd bit of white render, had a simple appeal to us this year. Having spent the last few years in a Kent weatherboard cottage where we may as well have been sleeping in a shed, we were determined that until we could afford to buy our own cottage and update it properly, we could only really trust a landlord to maintain a house that was, well, easy to maintain. Without going into too much detail, our previous and now late landlord was, how can I put it, a tight bastard and we admittedly were naïve. So the crisp clean lines of a purpose built cul-de-sac and a good chance of paying less than £500 a month to heat it made it an easy decision. And I must say, I love it here. We’re two Disney-blocks away from open fields and just a few Disney-blocks away from the local shops and playground. The neighbours are friendly but keep to themselves and despite being far from the picture of the rural village we came from, it’s much, much quieter.
That was until a few nights ago when we awoke to the sound of hooves on our front driveway. Yes, hooves. Being very suddenly awake, I uttered something incomprehensible in my loud, jerky walrus voice to Ed who was already at the curtains, twitching away. We heard a neighbour below telling someone how she’d seen around 10 horses walking around and she was going to call the police. After mentally going through all the openings in the house where any troublemakers associated with these equines might be able to get in and being confident we’d locked everything between us, we went to sleep confidently, if a little perplexed. The next morning Noah and I walked to the swings (a good half hour away) but our four legged rebels beat us to it. Clearly worn out from their night of mischief, they lay around on each other like a gang of delinquents drunk on cider. With no one in sight, let alone someone watching over these dead beats, I rushed Noah through his little recreation routine and scurried home.
I can only assume that these would-be-dogfood-by-now animals must belong to the gypsies, about a mile away. And who can blame them for at least feebly attempting to escape. But why do I immediately feel sorry for them, that they’ve obviously been sold as slaves into a life of crime and malice? Am I being narrow to assume all gypsies are bad? Well I’d be lying if I said, even with my limited exposure to them, I had anything positive to reflect on. No, only badly behaved cliquey children passing through my primary school and then two very sinister canal-boat gypsies living below our riverside flat whom we later found out were on the child protection register and only vanished once one of them murdered the other. So not a great experience on my part, but they can’t be all bad can they? Well I have to say, until I do have some contact with them, it’s going to be hard to change my mind. And I don’t get the impression that they’re concerned enough about their public image to invite the locals over for a barbeque. And why should they? Maybe I have just met the bad apples, but unfortunately it’s going to take a lot of experiences with good apples for me to feel remotely comfortable with them living nearby. Despite considering myself to be pretty open-minded and non-judgemental, I am indeed a gypsist.